Words: Gentleman's Journal
Whether meeting a girl you like is exceedingly rare or a regular occurrence, the pressure to get her begging for more is on. Men have long been known as the sex that initiates all the moves but actually, it feels pretty good to have the women do the chasing for once, right? If that’s what you’re after, follow this guide: here are the surefire ways to make her want you:
Calling her the evening after a date, asking her out twice in one week or texting her again and again when you haven’t received a response isn’t sweet, it’s desperate. If you want to keep her guessing and coming back for more, you need to make sure you’replaying the game. Tedious as it is, in the initial stages it’s more than likely to work and the more you leave her hanging, the more she’ll come back for.
A little mystery goes a long way, and revealing everything about yourself the first time you meet her leaves her nothing. Being aloof and holding back on the first couple of dates is going to keep her guessing – which is exactly what you want. If there’s that initial chemistry, you’re still going to be on her mind but remaining slightly inaccessible is a very easy way to keep her guessing.
Speak with a confident, strong and even voice. This may seem like an obvious point but, actually, this can become very difficult when standing in front of a hot woman. That high-pitched squeak quickly followed by a manly clearing of the throat… we’ve all been there. So it’s all about the three C’s: Cool, collected and confident.
It’s a well known fact that women love a funny guy. If you can make her laugh it is a surefire way of making sure she remembers you and continues to think about you after. The trick is to turn that affection into attraction. This means you must combine that funny with ‘funny and charming’ or ‘funny and slightly co*cky’.
Flirting with her is going to make her feel great, but try not to give her too much, too quickly. The second that you start to shower her with too many compliments is the second you look creepy and over the top, and no one wants to be that guy. Flirt with her by telling her how good she looks, but never go too far with the compliments until you’re in a full-fledged relationship – and even then, keep it tame.
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