Actually, when a Virgo feels the time is right, they have no problem moving on. They only seem to have difficulties letting go because they don't make hasty decisions, especially when it comes to getting in or out of a romantic relationship.
The Practicality of Letting Go
Virgos are typically practical, so when a relationship doesn't seem to be working out, instead of cutting and running, they think of all the time they've invested in it and try hard to revive it. They are also perfectionists and worriers who have a hard time convincing themselves that they've made a mistake and worry that letting go would be another.
Virgos can also handle any hurt or slight if they're convinced that the relationship is right. Before letting go, they will give their all and give a relationship, particularly a marriage, chance after chance. They want to be sure they're doing everything possible to make it work. They also feel a need to make a thoughtful and realistic assessment of what went wrong so they won't make the same mistakes again. All of this mental analysis and processing takes time.
Losing a Virgo can be difficult unless they're ready. However, you could try what's below.
Be Honest
A Virgo appreciates honesty. If the relationship isn't working for you anymore and you think it's time to call it quits, let them know. There's a good chance a Virgo is already in the midst of assessing its potential, will agree with you, and the breakup will be mutual.
You're Not Right for Them
Explain to them that they are a wonderful person with some great traits, but that all of their efforts are wasted because you aren't a person who wants or appreciates what they offer in a relationship.
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Make Yourself Scarce
In the end, you might have to make yourself scarce and go on with your life. If you have to interact with them, be dismissive, vague and intellectually boring. It may take time, but eventually, a Virgo will get the message and move on.
Here One Day, Gone the Next
Virgo fusses, worries and analyzes what they did wrong. They'll try to do everything they can to save and fix the relationship, but once they reach the point of being 110% sure that the relationship is not healthy for them, they really have no problem letting go. As a matter of fact, they might just disappear to avoid a messy scene.
Not Just a Virgo Sun
Of course, there are Virgos who will cut and run at the first sign of trouble. Keep in mind that what's written above is about generic Virgo. While the Sun gives a general overview, the Moon, the planets, and the Houses, as well as other important points and the aspects make a difference. There is also each Virgo's life experience to consider. Sun sign astrology can be fun and give you a clue about the energy that directs a person's life, but every Virgo is much more than their Virgo Sun.
The deeply committed and sensitive Virgo lovers have a lot to offer and get completely shattered when coming face to face with a breakup issue. It takes a lot of time for them to accept the harsh fact and move on but when they do, there's no turning back.
Virgos might find themselves over analyzing scenarios, anticipating problems, and worrying excessively about the future which can lead to unnecessary anxiety and strain on the relationship. Perfectionism is a common trait among Virgos, and this tendency can extend to their expectations in relationships.
Virgo. A person with a strong emotional intuition, such as a Virgo, may also be too quick to give up. Because of their sensitivity, they are likely to take things personally, and in difficult situations, they may withdraw and give up in an effort to spare themselves additional emotional pain..!!
After a breakup, they are likely to focus on practical matters, such as organizing their lives, setting new goals, or even improving their physical health. This practicality helps them regain a sense of control during a turbulent emotional period. Practicality is a hallmark of Virgo's coping mechanism.
When they're ignored, they may start questioning whether or not the relationship is right for them. They are their worst critics, and if they've screwed up the relationship, they'll want to punish themselves. Your Virgo may reach out after taking some time to think.
Virgos aim for perfection in all things so it is a little hard to determine what all disappoints them. But, to make it easier, they get disappointed when things aren't done their way, i.e the sole, PERFECT way.
Virgo pays attention to details and likes to solve problems practically. They care about others and want to help in practical ways. Even though they're practical, they're also mentally strong. They have a strong mindset and can face challenges with determination and focus.
Perfectionists at heart, Virgos like their lives to be neat and organised—and messing up this order of things could earn you a permanent spot in their bad books. However, since they aren't the best at vocalising their feelings, you could probably go years without realising what you have done to offend a Virgo.
If they discover they've trusted the wrong person, they might feel embarrassed and angry. They will confront the person and may decide to end the friendship or relationship. Virgos are practical and analytical. If they realize they've been deceived, they might feel disappointed in themselves.
Virgos love pondering over little things and enjoy their own company. However, their constant thinking can make it challenging to find friends who truly get them. If Virgos prioritize quality friendships over quantity, they might feel a bit lonely.
However, heartbreak usually comes in the form of a partner who's unwilling to work things out. "Because Virgo focuses so much on fixing any potential problems, it can really break their heart if their partner doesn't make them aware of any problems and/or just blindsides them with a breakup," Monahan says.
Virgos are naturally crazy critical of everything, but if you've noticed he's criticizing your relationship more than usual, it could be a sign that he's losing interest. And his criticisms are no longer there to improve the relationship, instead, they're used as fuel for why he shouldn't be in it any longer.
Virgos hate feeling like they've made a mistake, so it's not too common for them to regret a breakup. But as astrologer Tara Redfield tells Bustle, the only time a Virgo will have regrets is if they were truly in love. If that's the case, their over-analytical mind won't ever let them forget the one that got away.
The good news is that Virgo men prefer to finish what they start and are slow to let go of someone they truly care about. If you're earnest and respectful in your approach, you can get him back in your corner.
Virgo is turned on by what works logically for them in their lives, which means these practical perfectionists keep ironclad standards and shy away from putting their (hidden) sensitivity on the line for a risky character.
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