How to tell a girl you like her: 5 ways to tell her that you want to be more than just friends (2024)

So you like a girl but cannot figure out how to tell her? Read on to know five ways to tell your crush that you like her and want to be more than just friends.

If you had been besotted with a girl in your class or office for some time now but do not know how to tell her that you like her, we are here to help you out. This is a very common issue and many boys do not know how to express their feelings to a girl properly. They become either too emotional or too vague and detached. You may have made up your mind to tell her but would end up just beating around the bush. We know it is really difficult to confess it to her but you need to let her know that you like her. Here are some tips to help you out. (ALSO READHow to tell your crush you like him: 7 ways to let him know about your feelings!).

1. Spend time with her to test the waters

We usually hang out with people we like so, when you start spending time with her, she will get a hint that you like her company. Do not turn on your romantic mode right away as it will creep out the girl. Have a casual conversation, smile, compliment her, let her know you like her company and do not forget to give her a small memento. It need not be a big gift but small things like a coin from your collection or something you made or a small toy. This will remind her of you and will let her know that you like her.

2. Prepare what you are going to say

It will not help you if you start mumbling something or just freeze when the time comes to tell her that you like her. Prepare and practice what you want to say but do not overdo it or it will sound like an essay. Keep in mind all the important points. Be genuine and tell her what you actually feel. (ALSO READ7 reasons why long distance relationships don’t work!).

3. Take her to a decent place and look presentable when you decide to tell her that you like her

It is important to look presentable when you want to talk to her about your feelings as it will give an impression that you are serious about her. Make sure, you take her to a decent place where you both can talk. Be understanding and kind, these are the things every girl likes in a man. And when you talk to her, be confident. Tell her clearly how you feel about her.

4. Tell her to think about it before giving an answer

She may not be expecting what you are about to tell her so give her the time to process it all. You can start by saying that you do not want to make it weird but had to let her know that you like her. She may not have the same feelings for you, so ask her to think it over or take her time. Answer her if she has any doubts and tell her that she need not feel pressured. (ALSO READALSO READRelationship goals for 2017: 7 goals that you need to set for a happier life!).

5. Be ready to accept her answer

Once you are done telling her about your feelings for her, be prepared for her reaction. If her answer is not what you were expecting, then do not get agitated. Be patient and calm. Accept her decision and tell her that you value her as a friend. Your attitude will definitely make a good impression and who knows, she may even change her mind.

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